Your purpose in your relationship is to be considerate of your partner, put your partner first, be present, show your partner support instead of always coming up with solutions they don’t need. Your purpose is to understand your strength and your partners’ strengths. It is to break the berries created by society and the previous generation, and most importantly, it is to love your partner unconditionally. Your relationship must bring calm and harmony, peace of mind, joy and happiness. It is time to let go of the idea that relationships have ups and downs and must bring difficulties and pain.